You’ve booked your engagement session—yay! Now comes the next big question: what the heck do we wear? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. This is hands-down one of the most common questions I get from couples, and the good news is: you don’t have to overthink it.

The goal is to feel like you—comfortable, confident, and a little elevated. Whether we’re shooting in the mountains, on the coast or deep in the rainforest, here are my best tips for choosing outfits that photograph beautifully and reflect your vibe.

1. Start with Comfort (Yes, Really)

If you're not comfortable, it’ll show. Choose clothes you can move in—walk, spin, sit, cuddle, and adventure in. You should feel good, not like you're wearing a costume.

Pro tip: Test your outfit by doing a few twirls or sitting on the floor in it. If it passes the movement test, you're golden.

2. Coordinate, Don’t Match

Aim for complimentary colors and textures.

Choose a shared color palette—earthy tones, neutrals or muted pastels are always winners.
Mix textures—think denim, linen, cotton, knits, etc.
Avoid super loud patterns or logos—they tend to distract.

Want to play it safe? Neutrals like cream, taupe, olive, rust, navy, and black are always photogenic.

3. Think About the Location + Season

Where we're shooting totally matters! Your outfits should feel like they belong in the space.

Beach: Flowy dresses, linen pants, barefoot vibes.
Mountains or forest: Earthy colors, boots, cozy layers.
Winter/fall: Layers, scarves, textured coats, warm tones.
Spring/summer: Breezy fabrics, florals, open-toed shoes.

Bonus: If the weather turns (which it often does in the PNW), layers and cozy jackets photograph beautifully and add movement!

4. Bring a Second Look (Optional, but Fun!)

Some couples like to do one casual outfit and one that’s a little more dressy. It’s totally up to you, but having two looks gives you variety in your final gallery.

Just keep in mind: if we’re hiking or moving around a lot, it should be something easy to change into or layer over your first outfit.

5. Accessories & Details

Little touches can elevate your look without stealing the spotlight:

Hats (if you love them—no stress if not)
Jewelry that feels like you
A cozy blanket to wrap up in
A bouquet or dried florals (especially pretty in moody or minimalist sessions)

Tip: Avoid smartwatches, or hair ties on wrists—they can be distracting in photos. & always make sure everything is out of your pockets come photo time!

6. What Not to Wear

Just a few things to avoid for photo-friendly outfits:

Loud logos or branding
Neon colors (they cast color onto your skin)
Tiny patterns (they can look busy on camera)
Anything that makes you feel uncomfy (always having to mess with straps, pull the fabric up or down, etc)

7. Be Yourself & Have Fun!

At the end of the day, wear something that feels like you. Not someone you saw on Pinterest. If you’d never wear a long flowy dress or heeled boots in real life, that’s totally okay! This session is about celebrating your connection—not playing dress up.

Need Help Deciding? I Got You

I always encourage my couples to send over outfit options! I’m more than happy to help you narrow it down or suggest something that fits the vibe and setting of your shoot. We’re creating a visual story together, and your clothing is part of the aesthetic.

Have more questions about prepping for your engagement session? I’m always here to help!

What to Wear for Your Engagement Session